Now I found this article about making some Birthday Traditions for your kids and I think that is important. We didn't do all of these traditions but most of them sound like fun, except for the Sleep Over one. We had a rule in our family (before the kids were even born) that we wouldn't do Sleep Overs. Having had the experience I did with abuse and hearing other survivor's stories... Jeff and I both knew that was one thing are kids wouldn't do. But we did go the extra mile to do other special things. Like we would have a dinner and a movie night and they could stay up late... but then their friends would go home to sleep.
The point is that the Birthday child knows how loved and needed they are,especially on their Birthday!
I laugh as some of the funny Birthdays parties we had and my kids are more than willing to tell you all the traditions that our family had for their Birthdays...wish I had some photos to show you.
Hope you have had a great day! Good night dear friends!
8 Birthday Traditions You’ll Want to Try
|Written by Kerrie McLoughlin, Photo: Jupiterimages/Comstock/Thinkstock|
|Every year when I was a kid, my parents would let me choose where I
wanted to eat dinner out for my birthday. Another birthday tradition
they kept going was to have a small party for me with family and
friends, including a cookout since I have a June birthday. Kids love to
feel special, and it can be a challenge to find the time to come up with
ways to make a birthday a knockout. Never fear!|
Below are eight ideas for birthday traditions to start with your own kids. Pick and choose a few of them each year… and stick with the ones you and your birthday kid love!
1. Rise and shine. I like to wake my kids up on their birthday not with, “Get up! It’s time for school!” but with an extra long snuggle and the condensed version of the day they were born. Who doesn’t like to hear their birth story?! Adopted and foster children can be told how they were meant to be brought into the family and how special they are.
2. Birthday letter. Every year, I type up a birthday letter for each of my children telling them what great things they did and said and learned during the past year. I give the birthday child a copy, then save a copy in a binder and on my computer for myself because we all know kids can’t keep track of stuff. The plan is to give each of my children a copy of all their letters when they move out, which means they’ll have somewhere between 18 and 30 letters to enjoy!
3. Birthday slideshow. With just a few clicks of your mouse, you can create a special slideshow using PowerPoint or a similar computer program. Just pop in photos, size them and add cute captions. You can even add some music if you like. After your child watches it about a zillion times, save it to a CD and pop it in a special place (safe deposit box, fireproof box, etc.) so your child will always have it.
4. Photos. I try to take as many pictures as I can on birthdays and even make sure I’m included in some of them, since I’m the mom and all! Later, we like to get out old photo albums and the birthday kid’s baby album.
5. Special meal. One of my kids loves the neighborhood restaurant where they sing Happy Birthday and are given a balloon to take home. Another is content heading to the local fast-food indoor play area and grabbing bites of food in between trips down the slide. Make at least one meal of the birthday child’s day something out of the ordinary!
6. Special treat. We like to hit the cupcake restaurant or grab huge, frosted cookies from a local baker and share with our friends and neighbors to spread the celebration around. A cheap - and just as special - route would be to make your child’s favorite dessert at home: cookies, cake, banana splits, shakes or ice cream sundaes are always a good bet. Depending on which fruit is in season (or go frozen!), a decadent fruit smoothie made with frozen yogurt could be nice.
7. Party (doesn’t have to be on the actual birthday). If you get a few gray hairs every time you think of planning a birthday party, don’t fret. Options include: a simple party at your place with just a few people, a bash at a park shelter or a celebration where a local children’s party place does all the work.
8. Birthday weekend sleepover with a few special friends (for kids over age seven). Warning: this one is not for the faint of heart! I suggest a maximum of three friends to stay the night at your house on a Friday night around the time of your child’s birthday. Order pizza to make life easy on yourself, grab some movies from the library and have them set up their sleeping bags as far away from your bedroom as possible.
" The more you praise and celebrate your life, the more there is in life to celebrate." ~Oprah Winfrey