The Man and the Birds
By PAUL HARVEY, ABC RADIO
Dec 24, 2004, 01:57


So we just snuggled up with a good movie Big Hero 6, then got our snacks and blankets and we snuggled down for the night. 

Well, we have about 6 inches of snow outside and it is still falling. I have hot water in the crockpot which is all ready for Hot Chocolate. I have in the other crock pot Chicken’s and Dumplings. And then a huge pot of Pinto Beans and Ham on the stove simmering. Now you can probably tell by this menu that I am a True G.R.I.T.S. ( Girl raised in the South ). The funny part is, Jeff is looking at me wondering who in the world is going to eat all this food. I know, I keep forgetting it is just us two, oh how I miss my kids! There is just something about a Snow Storm that makes me want to prepare ….just in case the neighborhood needed some help!
I have done that since the kids were little, when the weather gets bad outside…I start cooking. Old habits are hard to break I guess! Oh well, unless a cold and hungry stranger comes knocking at our door to come eat, I guess I will just freeze some of it. I guess being prepared is better than NOT being prepared!

I received an email from a dear friend of mine tonight, and she reiterated what some other Empty Nesters have told me. That having your kids leave is really hard and it really hurts, but only because that meant I really loved my kids. She also reminded me that it will come and go in waves…since two of my kids have already left home earlier and now are married, I understand what she means. Still knowing that they are still only a phone call or an email away helps. How grateful I need to be that we do love each other and miss each other. Many families don’t have that.
So tonight I actually went to my sewing room and created something. It felt good, I need to do more of that. Plus, I need to remember we G.R.I.T.S. ( southern girls ) are tough, I need to toughen up and keep moving, because if you aren’t moving, then you are actually going backwards…so true. Gotta go and put the stuff in the freezer before I go to bed!
Good night dear friends!
It's not only children who grow. Parents do too. As much as we watch to see what our children do with their lives, they are watching us to see what we do with ours. I can't tell my children to reach for the sun. All I can do is reach for it, myself. ~Joyce Maynard
“The love of a family is life’s greatest blessing”
Today started out early, when Lee woke us up and said it was snowing outside( I don't think we ever, out grow the excitement for snow, and especially on a holiday). Then around 9:00 Lauren and I got the turkey ready and going...you know the rest from there... sweet potatoes, cranberry sauce, setting the table, Christmas music in the air, dressing, gravy and on and on. John, Amy and girls came over with the rest of the meal,and our sparkling cider...yes it was a great day! The only thing that could have made it better would have been if Brad and Krystal and our other family could have been with us!
One of our Thanksgiving traditions is ...after we all sat down and before the prayer, we always go around the table and everyone mentions something that they are grateful for... it always does my heart good to listen to how thankful my family is for soooo many things. At the end we asked Angie what she was thankful for, not sure if she understood or not, so Amy re-worded it. She said " Angie, what makes you happy?" Her sweet response, without any hesitation was " My Heavenly Father". Yes, out of the mouths of babes!
We received a Thanksgiving email from some dear friends of ours, who just recently battled with cancer. Part of my friend's email was to her kids and one thing that stuck me the most, was this part of her letter.
"While I cannot remember such a physically painful challenge as the cancer in my life, I have also never felt so close to Heavenly Father and Jesus Christ, and appreciated the Atonement. I would not exchange the experience for what I have learned and for how I have been blessed to see life through different eyes, and with a different heart. I hope you can be grateful for that for me.
And I hope that you are feeling the Lord's love for you, too, as you draw close to Him in your decisions, choices. I know He is there for you, just as he has been there and continues to be there for me. I hope you will remember that your mother trusted God and He never let her down! And that she has faith and trusts that He is as mindful of you as He is her… "
I think the reason this hit home to me, is because that is exactly how I have felt, and exactly what I have tried to teach my children, through my whole cancer experience. I believe Mothers, think an awful lot alike.
So tonight I sit here and realize that my eyes and heart have been changed too, for the better! And for that I am very grateful. I am also grateful for each one of you, and pray that you were able to find something to be thankful for, on this wonderful Thanksgiving Day!
Love, The Woodards
"A single grateful thought toward heaven is the most complete prayer." Gotthold Lessing
Thanksgiving, after all, is a word of action." W. J. Cameron
"In everyone's life, at some time, our inner fire goes out. It is then burst into flame by an encounter with another human being. We should all be thankful for those people who rekindle the inner spirit." Albert Schweitzer
Today was a fun day. It began snowing early on this morning and the predictions were that a storm was coming. Now for Washington, we don't usually have to worry about snow storms but, still it was looking a bit foreboding. I called Amy and the girls, and asked if they wanted to come over. They did and so we just had a snow day, it was so much fun, we made pumpkin pies for Thanksgiving, we made soup and hot chocolate... when we came back in, from playing in the snow. We also made Christmas gifts and even made a Christmas twill skirts too!
Tonight we are doing a sleep over, Angie is sleeping in the Secret Bed and soooo excited. Jenny is in her crib, in Lauren's room, so everyone is in safe and sound for the night.
Our family in Utah and Idaho think it's funny, when we tell them that school is canceled tomorrow because we have freezing weather and 3 -1/2 inches of snow! For them a foot or two of snow, is the only time things slow them down...but not here! Tomorrow isn't suppose to get above freezing, and so it looks like we get another family snow day! We love these days, just wish that Brad and Krystal were here to share in the fun! We really are missing them!
So I am thankful today for....
Snow...and how beautiful and clean it makes everything look.
Family...and the chance to be together and have fun ( and the fact that we liked to be together is no small thing!)
Shelter...almost 5 years ago, we had a terrible storm and it left us without electricity for 7 days, we now have a gas fireplace and so no matter what... we will be able to stay in our home and at least keep warm. I know there are many people who don't have even that.
Food...glad that we have our food storage and enough for not only us, but others who may need it.
Health...for this moment in our lives, we are all pretty healthy. That is no small thing in our house!
Friends...what a sad place our world would be without so many dear friends. Thank you for being in our lives!
"I think togetherness is a very important ingredient to family life." ~ Barbara Bush